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Sunday, 11 May 2008 |
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What happens when one spouse stays the same while the other changes?  | My wife has never been affectionate. We have been married for 17 years. Even though I love my wife, I've had several affairs. I have recently been thinking about getting divorced. It's not that my wife has changed. It's that I realize that I want more. I'm afraid of ending up old and miserable with her. She doesn't think that there is anything wrong with her lack of affection. Should I leave my wife? Other than this issue she is nice to be around. - Changing in GA
| | | |  | First, I just want to be clear about something. The fact that your wife is not affectionate is not why you cheated. You cheated because you wanted to. You had a lot of options. I believe that being in a relationship where you are not being honest is not healthy. You are having affairs and, presumably, lying to your wife about them. If you can't honor your marriage vows, then you need to be single. You may have changed over the years, but, one thing that hasn't changed is the fact that you are married. If you can't keep your penis in your pants, then move on. Stop trying to use your wife as an excuse for your bad behavior. Accept responsibility and let your wife go find someone that will love her for her. | | | | |
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