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My girlfriend and I have been engaged for years. Does she still want to get married?  | My girlfriend and I have been dating for the last 6 years. I asked her to marry me in year 3. So far she hasn't made any attempts to make any plans for our wedding. She doesn't even talk about it with me. I have tried to talk about it at different times, but she just brushes me off. It's been 3 years and I'm starting to feel like I should call off our engagement and forget about it. If I do, I'm sure we wouldn't break up, but, I don't know what to do anymore. Is it a lost cause? - Unsure If She Is Sure In NJ | | | |  | First of all, before you go calling anything off, I want you to try something. It's this little thing called communication. Let me be clear about something. If you can't talk to your girlfriend about this then you shouldn't even be thinking about getting married. You must sit your girlfriend down and find out if she wants to get married, why she hasn't said anything about marrying you and what she wants to do at this point. You need to also tell her how you feel. Marriage is very serious. If your girlfriend isn't ready then the last thing you want to do is try to force her into it. She may be having difficulties that she hasn't communicated with you. Sit down and talk. Don't break the engagement out of frustration. Break it because she tells you explicitly that she doesn't want to marry you. If she is worth marrying, then she is worth talking to. Figure it out with her. If she absolutely, positively won't talk about the situation, then your path with her is clear and you should ask for the engagement ring to be returned to you. However, I'm believe that if you force the issue she will tell you what is going on. | | | | |
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