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Ask K Questions And Answers - My Husband Cheated... |
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Sunday, 25 May 2008 |
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What should you do when you discover your husband has been having an affair, but, he still works with the woman he had the affair with?  | I recently discovered that my husband has been having an affair. We have been married for 3 years and he has been having the affair for the past 6 months. He works with the woman he was having the affair with. He and I have gone to counseling and I feel that the only way that I can stay in the marriage is if he finds another job. I am losing my mind every time he goes to work. He is a lawyer at a respected law firm. The problem is that he refuses to leave. He told me that he can just stay away from her. It's not good enough for me. What should I do? - Can't Make Things Right in FL
| | | |  | What should you do? I think you should follow your heart. If your husband cheated with this woman while he was married he has already demonstrated an inability to control himself. You can't trust that he will now be able to restrain himself. You have been placed in an unenviable position. If I were you, I would explain to my husband that this is a deal breaker. You can't spend your life worried about your husband's affair. You have to live and move on with your life. Although it may be painful, I would give your husband an ultimatum and then follow through with it. It may hurt to leave a cheating spouse initially, however, your hurt will heal in time. Staying in a relationship that you don't feel comfortable with is asking for trouble. In the end, you have to ask yourself how much your sanity means to you and then you have to do what is best for your you. He created the situation, he should be willing to do whatever it takes to make it right. This is just my humble opinion. | | | | |
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