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 You just broke up with someone you were dating. It seemed like it would last forever. Unfortunately for you, forever came sooner than you expected. Now you not only have to deal with breaking up with someone you care about, you also have to deal with repairing your heart and moving on. Those things are difficult enough, but, how are you supposed to accomplish those things if you still have to see the person you were dating? Maybe you take classes with the person. Maybe you work with the person. Maybe the person lives close to you. No matter what the reason, if you are going to be seeing the person you have just broken up with, you need to develop a game plan so you can handle yourself well when you see your ex and so you can heal at the same time.
- Dating Tip 1 - Don't Continually Display Anger Every Time You See Your Ex
You may want to kick your ex every time you see him or her, but, the only thing this will get you is a swift visit to the 'plush' accommodations of your local police department. Instead, a better approach is to not say anything to your ex when you see them. This way neither of you feels like you have to be fake or phony with each other.
- Dating Tip 2 - Don't Say Bad Things About Your Ex To People Who Know The Both Of You
It may be natural to want people to empathize with you, however, talking bad about your ex isn't the way to make that happen. It may be tempting, but talking bad about your ex will just create animosity between the two of you and he may start doing the same to you.
- Dating Tip 3 - Don't Keep Trying To Talk To Your Ex About Why You Broke Up When You See Them
Most people don't get the chance to speak to their ex everyday. Most people wouldn't want to even if they could. If, however, you are one of the few that still feels that you have something relevant to say to this person, don't do it every time you see them. Leave them alone. It's over and both of you know it. Give yourself and your ex a break.
- Dating Tip 4 - If You Can't Handle Seeing Your Ex You Should Leave
Sometimes it's not possible to stay away from your ex if you have to see them everyday, however, you have to look out for you. If it is just too much for you, you may need to leave. Take another class, get another job or work in another division or move if you need to. Don't stay if you really can't handle staying. You may need time to heal and, if you do, seeing the person everyday is not going to help you. Leave if you need to.
- Dating Tip 5 - Prepare Yourself For Seeing Your Ex With Someone New
This may or may not be a concern for you if you are the one that did the breaking up, but, you need to prepare yourself for seeing your ex with someone new. If you aren't prepared, you may end up with a completely ruined day when it happens.
- Dating Tip 6 - If Your Ex Is Violent, Do What You Have To Do To Stay Away From Them
If your ex is a violent person, you have to do what you can to protect yourself. If that means leaving your job or whatever, then you have to do it. You may feel like you want to stay and see things through, but, having your ex come around and try to kill you isn't much fun. Therefore, you need to take their violent tendencies seriously and move on.
Getting over an ex is hard. Getting over an ex that you see every single day is harder. The good thing is that you don't have to make things harder on yourself by overreacting every time you see them. Control yourself and make sure that you aren't placing yourself in danger by seeing your ex on a daily basis. Break ups can really take their toll on a person's heart and mind. If seeing your ex proves to be too much for you, know when to throw in the towel and move on.
Written By Kila Morton
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