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 Understanding the reasons that a woman cheats can be very difficult if you aren't tuned into what women are typically after in a relationship. Women just don't cheat for the same reasons that men do. For all of you guys out there trying to figure out why your woman cheated on you, read this article and get a clue. Make sure you pay attention to the mistakes you made in the past or you may be doomed to repeat those mistakes in the future. Tune into your woman or she may tune out to you. Now before you read this list, I want to remind you of one thing. There are only two kinds of people in this world - people who cheat and people who don't. We are talking about the type of women that would here - not the women that wouldn't. It is accurate to say that this is a list of reasons why a woman would cheat if she is the kind that would cheat, however, you need to keep in mind that people can often feel forced into particular things and cheating is no different.
- Dating Tip 1 - Time - You Weren't Spending Enough Time With Her When women are in relationships, they want to spend time with the person they care about. They hate to feel lonely. They equate the amount of time you spend with them with the level of care you feel for them. If you don't spend time with them, they start feeling lonely and they start feeling like you don't care. Your neglect coupled with her anger leaves an opening for infidelity on her part. All it takes is the right person to come along and start paying attention to her. If she is the cheating type, once that other man or woman :-) comes along she is going to go for them and cheat on you.
- Dating Tip 2 - Amount Of Sex - You Weren't Having Sex With Her Enough Women equate your desire to have sex with her with the amount of care you feel about her. They do this even if they keep telling you no. The minute you stop asking for it, there is going to be a problem.
- Dating Tip 3 - Bad Sex - You Are Having Really Bad Sex With Her Women aren't stupid. You may think that your two minute magic is wonderful and exciting, but, she doesn't. Women need more than just bad sex, low energy and no excitement in the bedroom. Men forget that there are other things besides a penis that can help to please a woman. If you are a two minute man, there are things you can do and help you can get for yourself. If you don't, you are being selfish because there are two people in the relationship and one of them isn't being satisfied. Make sure you are taking her needs into account. Kiss more, ramp up your energy in the bedroom, do other things more, get into her when you are intimate and make her know that she is the only one for you.
- Dating Tip 4 - Control - You Were Too Controlling Believe it or not, women need freedom. If you are extremely controlling, trying to stop her from talking to her friends and trying to stop her from doing different things, she will be waiting to get out and be free and in control. All it takes is someone who understands what she is going through with you. It's sad to say, but, your controlling ways will do more to chase her away than it will do to keep her.
- Dating Tip 5 - Communication - You Didn't Spend Time Communicating With Her (Notice I didn't say talking to - I said communicating with) Women need to be communicated with. Communication provides a level of intimacy for a woman in a relationship. Women have to have communication with the person they are with to feel whole in the relationship. If you aren't doing that she is going to feel incomplete. When that happens, if she is the type that would cheat, then that is what she is going to do. She is going to try to get something from someone else that she can't get from you.
- Dating Tip 6 - Romance - You Aren't Romantic Women love to feel romance in their relationship with their partner. When they don't feel that romance and that passion in their relationship, they start being open to cheating with someone that offers them that excitement, romance and passion. If you don't know how to be romantic then you need to open a book and start reading. Don't be ashamed if you don't know how. Many men don't. The key is that you don't decide to stay ignorant about romance. Read up on the different ways to be romantic with the woman you want to be with.
- Dating Tip 7 - Boredom - Your Relationship Is Boring A boring relationship is a recipe for infidelity. Your mind starts to wander and sometimes you end up doing things you wouldn't do normally. If you and your woman are stuck in a rut and things are very dull and boring between the two of you, find a way to spice things up. Vary your routine. Communicate with her about it and resolve to take care of this before it turns into her cheating on you.
- Dating Tip 8 - Desirability - You Don't Make Her Feel Like A Woman Men sometimes don't realize how much women need validation. When she puts on that red dress she wants and needs to hear you say that you think she looks great. When she gets her hair done, she needs you to notice and comment on how nice it looks. Women need to feel that their man desires them. Over time, men stop saying those little sweet things that women need to hear. You start seeing the woman you are with as a fixture in your life. The 'new car' effect wears off. What is the new car effect? When you get a new car you are excited about it. Every time that you see it, you comment to yourself on how beautiful it is. You tell your friends and your family. Then there comes a point where you stop doing that and the car becomes a fixture in your life. It isn't new anymore. All too often, men do the same thing in their relationships. When someone else comes along and starts making her feel like a woman again, she is going to eat that up and cheat on you.
- Dating Tip 9 - Emotional Connection - You Don't Confide In Her, Bond With Her Or Connect With Her On An Emotional Level That's a lot right? The thing is that not connecting to the woman you are with leaves her feeling like you aren't being open with her. Some guys have a hard time opening up to people. The problem with that is that women need this type of connection. They need to feel like you trust her with your heart and soul. Without it, women don't feel connected with you and that could lead to the woman you are with looking for that connection outside of the relationship.
- Dating Tip 10 - Attention - You Don't Pay Attention To Her A lot of men think that this means that you have to make the woman you are with the center of attention. That's not what this means. It means that you need to treat her like she is something special to you and pay attention to who she is and what is going on in her life. Women need to know that you know that they are there. Pay attention to her. Ask her how her day was. Kiss her and touch her when you see her without looking for sex. Let her know through your actions that what has been happening in her life matters to you. If you don't, you are asking for trouble.
This may seem like a long list of things to have to do to keep a woman faithful, but it really isn't. These are some of the basic elements that any person wants in a relationship; communication, intimacy, attention, romance, etc. Women may need more of these things than a man might, but, being in a relationship means trying to balance her needs with what you are willing to give. Spending time focusing on the things that will make her happy is a recipe for a good relationship.
Written By Kila Morton
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